Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Peace, Love, and Red Underwear

Mali ~

Always a busy month in December. Always seems like there's not enough time to get everything done *and* be able to enjoy it. This year was no exception. But...we tried and as usual, we always find a way to make it memorable.

First things first, though. While Daddy was out in California on business, you and I got a wild hair and decided to wash the outside of our windows to spruce things up a bit for Santa. So...we went to the hardware store, got a giant squeegee with a telescoping pole, and took care of business. I didn't get any pics of us doing the other taller windows, but here you are taking care of our storm door. You loved this little gadget. Just like your dad...a sucker for gadgets and doo-hickeys.



This Christmas, while Daddy is still working like crazy and stressed quite a bit, it was a little nicer because he is now stressed and working like crazy for a company and people who truly appreciate him. It makes a world of difference. He actually got a very unique bonus from his boss and, in the spirit of giving and paying it forward, we were able to go out (as a family) on a secret Santa mission and spread some of our good fortune to a dear friend. We surprised him at his work and hid our gift, then texted him from your phone (so he wouldn't recognize the number) and made him go find it, then we hid and waited for him, jumping out at just the right time. It's always fun to not only do something sneaky like this, but also spread good cheer to those who might need it. That's definitely what this season is all about.

We also got an invitation to the Bulldog Breakfast, a recognition ceremony of sorts at your school. Evidently, one of your teachers had nominated you because you make a positive difference for them (and in your school) every day. It is a really admirable bi-annual event...another reason I'm so glad you attend school here. What an honor...so proud of who you are in this world!







Another fun pre-winter break event at school was your holiday concert. You finally got to show us your French horn skills and we got to listen to a variety of holiday music from the band, orchestra, and choir. You were so nervous and excited to show us and had a good cheering section with myself, Daddy, Lao Lao, Memaw, Papaw, and Audrey all in the audience.


Can you see Daddy standing in the wings to the left of the stage? He and Papaw split up and were on a mission to get some good action shots of you!







With long-time buds, Jocelyn and Jelysa.




With your friend, Avery.






You also got to go see some drive-thru Christmas lights with Jelysa and Jocelyn (which you thoroughly enjoyed) and then on another night, we did our annual Wildlights at the zoo.

Of course, not before Lucky decided to climb our Christmas tree at home and give us his own show of 'wild lights', first. Little jerk.


In true teen fashion, you declined most pictures at the zoo, except for this one. 


But...here *we* are!


and since Lao Lao was wearing a crazy zebra Christmas sweater, we
convinced her to hop a fence and take a picture with this giant zebra
Christmas ornament...I mean...we had to, right?!

And here we (Daddy and I) are again on a date night at Easton...ewwww, right? Ha ha.



During the run-up to winter break and Christmas, you were having some various conversations with friends at school about Santa. Evidently, your friends group is becoming more divided between believers and non-believers. Here's a conversation you and I shared one afternoon after school...


I couldn't have answered it better myself, kiddo. I love the way you think! Ha ha.

And when Christmas break was finally upon us, we did celebrate its beginning with a family lunch at Easton! Yay for winter break!


We tried to keep you busy and connected with your friends over the break. One evening, we took your friend Bryden with us to dinner and to see the lights downtown.





After dropping Bryden off, Daddy took us up north a little bit to see a surprise...probably the wildest home I have ever seen decorated for Christmas. You were tired and grumpy so we didn't get any pics of you with this house, but oh. my. gosh. Can you believe this?! I can't even remember how many thousands (millions?) of lights they said were on this home. Let's just say...way too many to count! 




Christmas Eve came and while there was no snow, we had a whole lot of fog. Check this out from my walk that morning...



After my normal morning walk, we decided to decorate Christmas cookies for Santa. We did lots of the usual festive decorations and then we did this tray. The 'adults only' tray, a tradition of sorts around these parts...you know we can't do anything 100% normally, right? Ha.


The animals were clearly excited about Santa coming...


Lucky: "So, is Santa coming now?"
Grizz: "Not yet."
Lucky: "How about now?"
Grizz: "No. Be patient/"
We went to our annual Christmas Eve dinner at Billy Lee's. Delicious...as usual!


Then home for comfy clothes, games, and relaxing while we prepped for the big guy in red!



Audrey stopped by and hung out for a while, too!

evidently Grizz took first shift to watch for Santa

your note for Santa

Santa Clause Jr giving our tree-topper one last hug
before heading back to the North Pole with Santa
We also had you watch your annual video message from Santa before heading to bed as well. Eleven years in and you're as adorable this year as in all the years past...and the video is saved with all the others in our archive, of course. I love this tradition, as well. And I love that you still look forward to it so much, too.

Grizz: "Go to sleep, Suzy, or Santa won't come!"

tearing into the gifts before Christmas morning...ornery kitty
And...finally! It was Christmas morning! 

the stocking!

the gifts!
Lao Lao slept over on Christmas Eve and it was nice to have her here with us to wake up, open presents, and eat breakfast together. I didn't take nearly as many pictures as I would have liked to...but chose to stay in the moment instead. Sometimes that's even more important. Plus...I was a very, very sleepy mommy.

After a leisurely morning of opening gifts, stuffing ourselves with breakfast, and just lounging for a while, Lao Lao went to visit with Uncles Flint and Forge and their girlfriends while Memaw and Papaw came over to visit us. Daddy had been craving a turkey and so we went all out and made an entire Thanksgiving style feast with all the trimmings. It smelled amazing and tasted delicious and I always forget how cozy it feels to cook and feed your people like that. Why don't I do that more often?  


Grizz likes to help herself to our food

REALLY likes to help herself...

just one of those moments that made me smile
so I thought I'd capture it


Now that Christmas had come to a close...you still had the second half of your winter break. Much of it was spent hanging with our silly animals so the following several pictures are just essentially a bunch of animal spam. Enjoy...ha.

Lucky sleeps more like a dog than a cat

Pippy loves to cuddle with you

another odd sleeping position

how in the world are you still asleep?! ha

here Lao Lao is teaching Grizz how to make soup
with all of our leftover turkey

the dogs came on a freezing cold, early morning walk with Lao Lao and me
...Grizz (in particular) grew the most glorious icicle beard

what was I saying about Grizz helping herself to our food...?

Dad has clearly had enough...double-teamed by Grizz *and* Lucky

I will never get tired of you climbing into my lap
for a snuggle and some extra comfort

my extremely belated birthday gift blanket from Daddy!
...sweet Abby and sensitive soul Susan...

once again, Double G thinks he's a parrot

you're not helping me work, Lucky

yes...there's an extra dog in this picture...
Thorfin the neighbor dog came for a visit

pretty little stinker

Lucky has found a new best friend...this string

takes it with him everywhere
Ok...ok. Enough of the animal spam (for now). While I went back to work, Daddy took you to the Verizon store to replace your phone which was completely fried. You were so excited to get your hands on a new phone and also to wear your brand new sweatshirt and blue Vans you just got...Christmas showcase!


breakfast with Dad at Delaney's and a genuine smile...gorgeous!

showing me how your remote timer works on your new phone...
not bad!

ok...one more random animal spam pic...I can't even explain this one


some artwork you created and sent me from your new phone

our holiday card this year
And finally...it was New Year's Eve. We celebrated it just as we usually do with a low-key evening at home with comfy clothes, lots of yummy food, games, laughter, and watching the ball drop on TV. And of course, Lao Lao's red underwear she makes us all wear for good luck. This year I chose to wear it on my head instead. It still counts, right?


Happy 2020, baby! I can't wait to see what this next year brings us all!
Love,
Mama

Saturday, November 30, 2019

Happy Thanksgiving ~ Now, Onward to Christmas!

M ~

Oh my goodness! Apologies in advance for all of the animal spam but as I peruse the pictures from this month, it became abundantly clear that our beloved pets are a huge part of our life! So furry. So fun.

Anyhoo...before I get into all of the furball deliciousness, I want to share a funny from one evening when Audrey was over for a visit and we decided to get out a new game of ours called "Freedom of Speech". Here goes...see below (as shared with our friends and family on social media):

"Playing a game last night where you had to get others to guess the phrases on your card without saying the words and M pulled the term "booty call"...

M: "This is what Grandma does to us all the time!"
All of us: "...???..."
M: "When she accidentally uses her phone and..."
Me: "Butt dial?"
M: "No! Booty call!"
All of us: "😳 Ummm... 😂"

Booty call...butt dial...I suppose it does sound similar to an 11 year old. Ha.

Ok, now on to the animal spam!

you and I took Suzy into the woods for a chilly, November
walk...I adore when you come with me like this

Grizz snuggled with Mom after babysitting the
crazy neighbor pup, Thorfin

GG is ready to get this show on the road and
decorate the house for Christmas!

an illustration of how hard it is to eat peacefully at our house

another illustration of how hard it is to read peacefully at our house

sunlight, Christmas tree, favorite kiddo

you actually slept in your own bed after I decked it out in new,
festive, Christmas bedding! as you can see from the sunlight
pouring in the window...you slept in late, too!
Dad also went to California for business this month, so we held down the fort (with Lao Lao's help) and even had to weather a small power outage. Here we are, being silly while sitting in the driveway trying to charge our phones so we have sufficient battery power to have an alarm in the morning. We sure do make lemonade out of our lemons. Don't we, kid?!


a thank you note you left for me in the bathroom:
"Dear Mom, Thank you for being there for me. Even dad
is not here, you are doing your best to Christmas-fi the house.
I didn't want to say it"
After a few days, Dad came home and we all surprised him at the airport. The dogs were so confused about what was happening. Ha.


And California isn't the only place we go that makes the animals miss us...

Lucky sent you off to school but made you leave your
sweatshirt so he could snuggle with it while you are away
The day before Thanksgiving break, I picked you up from school and found you attempting to busk with your friend, Delaney. Since middle schoolers aren't known for their expendable cash, you didn't make any money...but you had fun trying!

our little entrepeneurs

We also had a surprise house guest when Malcolm asked to stay with us for one night on his way through to his dad's for Thanksgiving. It was wonderful to have him here with us and, among other things, you made gingerbread campers with him. You are so silly together and he is such a joy to have around. Definitely welcome at our house anytime!


The day before Thanksgiving was your first day off school and since Dad and I both had to work, Lao Lao took you out for lunch, pedicures, and trampoline bouncing!

text I got from Lao Lao

And finally it was Turkey Day, which we spent at Joe and Tina's with the Yersavich family. It was a nice, relaxing, fun way to give thanks.

the cheese balls I made because I don't do anything normal

Uncle Joe carving the bird

Thanksgiving aftermath

Daddy and me with our 'homage to
Christmas Vacation' shirts

your gingerbread turkey
And finally, what's the best thing to do between the end of Thanksgiving and the beginning of the holiday season madness?! Nap!

"but first, let's call a meeting of the animals"

kitty cat nap time ~ clearly approve of your new
Christmas bedding


Lucky is beginning to cuddle with us more and more

and Grizz has always been a snuggler...even if
it's with your butt
Happy Thanksgiving! 
Now, onward to Christmas!

Love,
Mama