Monday, June 23, 2014

Happy Summer!!

Maliana ~ 

So this week has forced me to realize just a wee bit more that you are growing up. You decided you wanted to take two showers (all on your own) and exclaiming (once finished), "Mom! I washed all my parts just like you told me to do!". One evening you actually insisted on packing your own lunch for daycare the next day. Granted, it consisted of 2 string cheeses, a Capri Sun, mandarin oranges, peach mango applesauce, and grapes; but hey, it was all healthy. Girl loves her fruit, evidently! 

You also were feeling pretty good on Friday evening when you got the chance to hang out with your neighborhood buddies. Daddy and I let you get a little bigger taste of freedom by letting you walk around the neighborhood in the dark with Sophia, Cori, and a couple of other kids. You were clearly on cloud nine. I remember how *big* I felt when I got some freedom as a kid. I think your smile says it all...
After all of that running around, you (and Suzy) were pretty tuckered out...
...And in spite of my chuckles and amusement at this new turn of events in your level of independence, I couldn't help but feel the slightest twinge of sadness. No matter how much I fight it, I have to admit that my baby girl is growing up. However, regardless of how independent you (aka Little Miss Thang) is getting, you also reminded me that there are definitely moments when you still need me. You had a long couple days and a few meltdowns this week as well. One evening, after a particularly rough exchange over something fairly trivial, you climbed up onto my lap with your silkie and blanket and we both ended up falling asleep as I tickled your back. We slept like that for a few hours on the couch before getting up and sliding into bed for the evening. We must have desperately needed some extra snooze time. Vacation jet lag, I'm guessing. Anyway...just when I think that your old mama has become totally passe, you go and do something like that. Love it.

Saturday was a fun day. Audrey had spent the night with us on Friday (upon your request for a sleepover) and we ended up heading down to the Pride parade the next morning. I have taken you nearly every year since you've been home and it never fails to be entertaining and bring a tear to my eye to see the outpouring of support for the LGBTQ community. It's a cause that is near and dear to my heart and this year, you had lots of great questions that were interesting to answer. In particular, you were fascinated by drag queens and since many of them were so gorgeous and flawlessly convincing, you studied every tall and beautifully dressed woman we saw and kept asking how I could tell which ones were women and which ones were drag queens..."But how do you know, Mom?" Ha. How can I answer that one? There's really no magic formula. Anyway, I'm so glad that you are growing up with an awareness of diversity, an acceptance of all kinds of people, and an understanding that love is love, period. You (and people like you) give me hope in the future. 

passing the time


sources said there were 500,000 people there this year!


Happy Pride!


OUTSERVE ~ thank you for your service to our country!


you never know what you might see at Pride...



Once home, Audrey played with you for a while. As you both enjoyed game after game with your Littlest Pet Shop, you decided you wanted to host a wedding and Audrey told me later that one of the things you said during this pretend wedding was, "And do you take this man to be your lovely hostess husband?" Ha ha. So funny. Love your Mali-isms! It's fun to watch you with Audrey because she does such a good job of losing herself in both of your imaginations and immersing herself in your world, right along with you. Her genuine laughter and amusement makes my heart happy. I find myself wishing that I had her ability to remember how to let go and truly play like she does, and it makes me hope you never lose this ability either. People who know how to play, from age 1 to 101, just enjoy life more. Remember that. 

Saturday night you and I headed over to Jocelyn's house for a bonfire. We both had a lot of fun. They are such a very nice family and you get along so beautifully with Jocelyn. When I asked you if you knew whose house we were going to that night you asked, "Is it one of my favorite friends? Is it Jocelyn?!" It's great that you have such a good buddy at this age and that we all live so close to each other. Very lucky. 

Sunday morning we had some laid back time, taking it easy and relaxing. I took the pups for a nice long walk before it got too hot and then you and I went outside for a scavenger hunt later, which you actually took pretty seriously.
searching for items on your scavenger hunt

marking them off the list
You also had me pick up some litter that we came across and telling me, "We'll check it for finger prints later." Ha ha.
future EPA employee??
That afternoon, you went to play FootGolf with Daddy and Audrey. You did great and quickly fell asleep on the way home. Daddy brought you in and even though you woke up and fussed a bit, you fell fast asleep again once in my lap. We snuggled for a while and you ended up getting a decent rest which really helped put you in a great mood for the rest of the evening. The Szwabinsky family had come home the night before from their week long vacation at the beach and so you got to see your buddy Roman for a while, catching lightening bugs with him and just generally goofing around until bedtime.

A good ending to what is officially the first weekend of summer!
Love,
Mama

Thursday, June 19, 2014

OBX 2014!!

Maliana ~

What with having just wrapped up our vacation, and having an overwhelming amount of photos and stories over the course of the vacation week, I have a feeling that this will take another entire week just to capture it all here for you. I thought we'd do a "Day 1, Day 2, etc" outline-type format to make it easier on your old mama. Let's see how that works...anyway, 1...2...3...here we go!!

Day 1:
With the help of Papa Joe and Mama Patty, we drove down a day early and surprised Stacy, Brad and the girls. With a lot of planning and a few white lies, it worked and they were so shocked to see us! Love surprises! Then, Papa Joe and Mama Patty let us all crash with them that night so we could get up bright and early the next morning to caravan down to the beaches at OBX! Some of your more memorable quotes on that first day:

Me: "I think I'm just going to bite the bullet and do it"
Mali: "Mom! You should NEVER do that!"
‪#‎kidsaresoliteral‬ ‪#‎notreallybitingabullet‬

~ according to Mali, "sunSCREAM" will protect us from getting sunburnt.

Day 2:
KK rode down to the beach with us from Charlottesville. It was a very loud, messy, and entertaining trip, to say the least. Loved looking back and seeing your adorable little faces in the backseat. And we even got a little on-board entertainment ~ check it out!


Once at the beach house, we enjoyed a crazy evening of swimming galore, the excitement of each car load of family members arriving, more swimming, and even our inaugural crab hunt at dusk/dark. Needless to say, you were one tired pup come bedtime. 
we made it!

Lao Lao came with us this year!

KK and her first shell

you with your first shell

yay! let the fun begin!

how many kids can we fit in a hot tub?

Steven (Forge's friend)

Uncle Forge

one of the upper decks

Lao Lao and the sunset

Lao Lao loved walking the beach


crab hunting!






Day 3:
Major excitement at daybreak when we found a crab in our pool! (We didn't yet realize that there would be a crab (or more kinds of critters) around and in our pool nearly every morning on this trip. We picked up your rental bike later on and you got to ride around with Brad and KK and their really neat bicycle built for two. On this particular day we were also all surprised at the realization that rather than our younger girls getting into trouble, it was actually Lao Lao we had to keep an eye on. It turned out it was her idea to bomb everyone on the upper deck with water cannons from the pool ~ and you little girls loved it! Later on, we continued to watch all of you kids play in the various forms of water; "pool, hot tub, ocean, repeat" (as Stacy says). You were running, running, running like crazy all day...with little to no time for you dear old mom. It's so much fun to watch your relationships with the kids around you develop, even if it's at the expense of my time with you. By nightfall, you, Sammy, and KK went searching specifically for Lao Lao (whom you all grew very fond of on this trip) to ask her to take you on a night-time walk on the beach with your flashlights. 



you even got to scoop one out too!







water cannon fight!



goofballs!






KK is a lot like you...larger than life and so much fun!

Memaw is serious about getting good photos...and
Daddy is...well...I'm not quite sure.


Daddy and I stayed up late on this particular night, chopping and prepping for hosting our big luau dinner on Monday. It took a lot longer than we thought it would and you refused to go to bed without me. Everyone else had hit the sack that night, so it was just you, Daddy and me as the last men standing. We headed out to the deck and Daddy took this picture of you and I, snuggled up in the cool evening sea air, watching the tides go in and out under the moonlight and listening to the waves of the ocean. I wish bedtime was this peaceful every night. 
you may be getting bigger, but you're still my baby
Day 4:
Enjoyed the famous Duck Donuts for breakfast, then as part of the festivities for the luau that night, I applied a ton of temporary tattoos to you, Sammy and KK and lo and behold, the Turtle Gang was born! After all of you got "inked up", Stacy and Brad were kind enough to take all of you crazy girls (big and small alike) to the arcade and then to get some ice cream. Talk about a great afternoon! That evening it was our turn to cook dinner and so we threw a luau for everyone, complete with costumes, decorations, and a pinata. It was fun to see everyone look so festive and of course the pinata is always a big hit with you kids. More playing and more hot tub time for the rest of the night, always with a lot of silliness and giggles sprinkled in. 

thank goodness Daddy remembered to pack the magic marble!


photo bomb!

Lao Lao spent so much time with you little ones

the Turtle Gang









filling the pinata

KK

the hula munchkins!


group shot of the luau ~ everyone was such good sports!







almost twins!

getting ready to smash that sucker open!
#pinata
Day 5:
The ocean was freezing for most of the day, but that didn't stop us all from swimming! A memorable moment was when I came downstairs to our bedroom to hear giggling. When I pushed the door open, there were three very tanned little naked bodies bouncing on our bed. Evidently you, Sammy, and KK were attempting to change into your bathing suits, but the allure of bouncing on our bed won out. You were hilarious! By evening, you, Daddy and I took a few casual pictures of our family after taking some more formal (and gorgeous) pictures of the Williams family. Of course, Daddy couldn't help but ham it up with KK when it was all said and done. Ha. Afterwards, we took KK with us to get ice cream and then for a short walk through the Currituck Banks Reserve estuarine. It was very peaceful and we got to see the tail end of the sunset. Perfect.


Papaw aka the Old Man and the Sea

Sammy liked to stuff shells in her bathing suit

and you liked to help hose her down

brrrr!! cold ocean!!

jumping waves

Daddy loved to launch the older girls in the pool...here
Laurel is getting some air-time

Stacy and KK out to look for shells

Forge hangin in the pool

a Daddy pile-on!

Ring Around The Rosey!



silly kid

oh myyy...



ice cream is the best!



the estuarine



you kids loved to "help" Patty with her Ipad games
Day 6:
This morning found us crabbing from the docks. It was exciting for you kids, even if we didn't catch a big pot of crabs like we had hoped. Instead, we caught several smaller (but feisty) crabs, turtles, and even a big old catfish (thanks to Lao Lao)! It was pretty cool. 


raw chicken ~ yuck!

Memaw and Papaw trying to get a good photo
of all you kids crabbing

got one!


waiting

crabs love chicken!


turtles love chicken too


acting like monkeys in a tree

trying to scoop up Lao Lao's catfish





That afternoon, we headed to the ice cream shop at Timbuk II and of course, more beach time upon our arrival back to the house. You love the ocean more and more every time you see it and especially like jumping waves with Lao Lao and getting hit by waves while Mom and Dad carry you out into the sea.


love your expressions ~ bracing for the wave!






Inside, I busted out the fake fingernails we had brought on a whim. There was just something a little odd though to see such little people with big huge crazy nails. Funny stuff. 
And many of my favorite kid-isms from the trip were also noted on this particular day ~
Me: "You sneaky devil, you!"
You: "I am NOT a 'W'!"
You told us you were "hummitating" (aka meditating) by the pool...see for yourself:
hummitating ~ haha!
And finally, KK told us that our house has an "alligator" (aka elevator) and then you told us that you needed to use the "fly-swapper" (aka fly swatter) to get the pesky flies that kept getting in. Perhaps it's all of the swimming putting water in your ears, or perhaps it's just the simple joys of talking with little children, but for the rest of the trip, that is how I referred to each of those items. Love it!

Day 7: 
Rainy morning was saved by craft time with Stacy, making cute little flip flops! 

Thankfully the sun broke later and you were able to jump waves on the beach and spend some time in the pool with Papaw. 
I love this picture and the next of you "rescuing"
KK from the waves





perhaps "hummitating" again?















Team Grandma
The day ended much like it began, with more rain. However, before bed that night, our skies were graced by a double rainbow. Beautiful way to end the evening...


your mom and dad...not too shabby, eh?


the double rainbow even brought the boys
out from downstairs to enjoy it
And a beautiful sunset to boot!

by this time in the trip, you were anti-camera...
however Daddy and I took advantage of the sunset and
here's proof that we do actually clean up nicely
Day 8: 
Our final full day at the beach house was a gorgeous and sunny day, from morning until late in the afternoon. An expected gift after all of the rain forecasts throughout the week. It was beautiful and we all took full advantage of it, soaking up sun and water nearly all day long. It was on this particular day that you decided to get serious about learning to swim and made HUGE strides in the water! I was so proud of your persistence and your ability to face your fears. I can't wait for you to show your private swim instructor all of your progress when we get back!
washed up horseshoe crab


Lao Lao and I walked on the beach that morning

Mommy, being silly

Mama Patty and Papa Joe

view of our beach house from the ocean

senoritas ~ Stacy and Mommy

Memaw and Papaw ~ our shutterbugs

hang 10! surf's up, dudes!



oh, Daddy!

Daddy and Alex

silly KK


snuggled with Sierra
After we got dried off a bit, we headed up to the Corolla lighthouse where we took a wild horse tour with the Corolla Wild Horse Fund. The proceeds go back to helping the horses and we got to learn a lot about the peninsula and its horse population. Very cool stuff. 


petrified trees left on the beach, buried from an old forest

the first group of horses we spotted

shower, anyone?

foal nursing his mama

got an itch?

something was funny!
On our last evening, our little troupe took a few group shots on the top deck, overlooking our neighborhood and with the lighthouse in the far-off distance. 

That night, all of us mommies and daddies went out for a bit to celebrate our last night on the OBX. When we got back and as I was putting you to bed, you asked, "Mom, can we stay longer than 7 days next time?" (aww...so sweet). A tell-tale sign that you had a wonderful and marvelous vacation. I'm pretty sure we all did. 

The next morning after Stacy, Lao Lao and I watched our last sunrise over the ocean for this year, we headed out bright and early for home. It was hard to say goodbye, but we're hopeful that Stacy and her family can all come to visit us in Ohio in September. We spent a total of 13 hours on the road, a little longer than normal because of all of our stops. By the time we were about 2 minutes from home, this was how slap happy you were...

But after driving such a far distance in one day, there was nothing more awesome than pulling up to see Audrey Ayi, Sophia, Cori, and Bella (Cori's friend) in our yard, waiting with huge smiles to welcome us home. Sophia had painted a picture just for you and Audrey had created a beautiful piece of sidewalk art right in front of our entire house. It was such an amazingly heartwarming welcome after such a long, long day.

The giddiness of the drive carried over into our time at home. Audrey Ayi stayed and hung out, chatting with us until late, and while I tried to unpack, this is one of the many things that the two of you got into...
crazy girls!
When Audrey plays with you, she has such a joyous laugh, clearly living in the moment and having the time of her life. The picture above exemplifies this. It warms my heart that you not only get to spend a week on vacation with so many wonderfully fun and loving people, but that you get to come home to someone who adores you as much as your dad and I do too. Makes my heart feel like it could burst into pieces.

Love,
Mama