Thursday, March 1, 2018

Fiercely and Forever

Mali ~

Hi, sweetie! It was a strange mix of freezing cold and mild spring temperatures this month. We had one latent snowfall and figured we should take advantage of it. Being Ohio, you never know which one will be the last once you hit February. One day after school, I took you, Evie, and Ana (as well as the dogs) to our local park/playground. We had it all to ourselves.






Not sure what was happening here, but I walked past your room one day and saw the dogs hiding with you. Must have been a loud noise or something. Scaredy-pups.


Another day we were driving somewhere and got behind a car with this "I love School!" bumper sticker.


This was your reaction.
My little school lover! Ha.


The winter Olympics were this month and you were much more interested in both the USA and China this year. You were especially stoked to dig out your authentic Olympic jersey for the 2008 Chinese volleyball team from the games they hosted in Beijing. A family friend who works for ESPN gave this to us years ago. Bonus cool points that this jersey is from your birth year too! Pretty neat.



So, unfortunately Abby has been sick lately, super congested and exhausted. We have taken her to the vet and are trying to get her feeling better. One home remedy we tried was making her chicken noodle soup and then taking her in the bathroom with the shower on to give her a steam bath and open up her sinuses. Here you are tending to your fur-sister. So adorably sweet of you.


And...here's your fur-brother. Being a jerk, as usual.


This month I came in to your classroom to help with your Valentine's Day party which consisted of exchanging Valentines, making sundaes, and having a dance party. Everyone seemed to enjoy it and I love being able to help out. Here you are with two of your good friends this year, Jalysa and Jude.


We took the picture below specifically so you could put it in a frame that Jalysa made you out of popsicle sticks for Christmas. On the back it says, "Best Friends Forever".


That night, Audrey stopped by for some special Valentine hugs. We always love visits from our favorite auntie.


That weekend, we wanted to get out of the house and get some fresh air. In spite of it being soggy from a lot of recent rain, we piled the dogs into the car and took them to Blendon Woods. Abby was a little sluggish as she was still feeling under the weather, but it was nice to let them explore some new smells with us. It makes me happy to make the dogs happy.


Daddy has been working a LOT of weird (and long) hours this month so we had a subdued celebration for Chinese New Year with a lunch at your favorite Chinese buffet. In researching a little bit about Chinese history, you were excited by the discovery that fireworks originated in China. That weekend, to make up for his crazy schedule, Daddy took you to the fireworks store and let you pick out a bunch of different displays so we could do it up that night. It was quite the show!



He even let you light one of them (against my better judgment). Happy to report you still have all 10 fingers. Ha.



In spite of the celebrations this month, we unfortunately had a huge blow to our community with one particular tragedy. Two of our local police officers were shot and killed while responding to a domestic violence call. It actually happened not far from our house. Our hometown was brought to its knees. It was powerful how the community came together. Blue porch lights went on, memorials sprung up, blue ribbons appeared around trees and street signs...all of this throughout the entire city.

Actually, it just so happened that the day we were wrapping up at our Chinese New Year buffet lunch, we happened to be in the exact location where the funeral procession for the two fallen officers was about to occur. You, Ana, and I stayed and found a spot to wait and watch it go by in the freezing cold. In total, the procession took 2 1/2 hrs and included 2,700 law enforcement vehicles from all through the state of Ohio. It was overwhelming. Below are pictures of one of the memorials the Westerville police department had out at city hall...it was the fallen officers' SUV covered in notes, flowers, balloons, and touching mementos...as well as a blue star with memorial banners that hung over our main street in the 'ville. All so heartbreaking.



In spite of enormous tragedy, life moves on. For better or worse. Time is unstoppable.

Laundry still needed done at our house and the pic below is what happened when I asked you to help fold laundry. Evidently, a laundry basket makes a cozy seat.


We also took a family trip to the bowling alley one Sunday afternoon. It was fun and I didn't expect you to kick both Daddy's and my butt so handily. Dang, kid!


And...a typical month in our house would not be complete without animal shenanigans. As you can see below, our pets have become very adept at positioning themselves on our king size bed in such a way as to leave no room for the humans. Little stinkers.



Big yawn from GG.


Our lives even involved a little wildlife love. Lao Lao and I found an injured bird on our trail. Something was wrong with his wing so we scooped him up and kept him warm and fed in a box in Lao Lao's tub until we could take him to the wildlife rescue center the next morning. I have no idea if he made it or not, but I like to think that at the very least we gave him a fighting chance.



And finally...here are just a couple of your Mali-isms from some of our recent conversations.



Love you so much, kiddo.
Fiercely and forever,
Mama

Thursday, February 1, 2018

Family, Friends, and Furbabies...Snow and Sunshine

Mali ~

Happy, happy New Year! 2018! The first weekend in January we found ourselves back at Memaw and Papaw's for our annual pork and sauerkraut for good luck. We brought our new games of Speak Out and Telestrations and laughed until our sides hurt.

Memaw and Papaw in their newly remodeled kitchen...
first makeover in over 30 years!
Papaw taking one of his famous candids
having fun watching everyone play Telestrations
Speak Out!

Wilkinsons, 2018
One of our first adventures of the new year was helping Alysia (my friend from work) find a cat to adopt. One of the places we visited was the Cat Cafe...a place where you can go, relax, play with all kinds of cats that are roaming around what looks like a cozy house/cafe and find your new best friend. It is such a cool concept. I believe when we were there, they had adopted out 243 cats since their opening day. Pretty cool.
store front of the Cat Cafe

this cat reminded me of Garfield...I don't think he
moved from that spot once, just waited for people
like you to bring him lots and lots of treats


That same weekend I had a night out and so you and Daddy had a fun evening in with a Nerf gun dart war, card games, and learning how to play quarters. You, evidently, are a natural at quarters! Should I be nervous? Ha ha.



In more productive hobby news, Lao Lao had gotten you some monthly science kits for Christmas and so she came over to help you with a few of them. The experiences are really interesting and you're a big fan of the science goggles.
We got some more snow this month and were able to finally take Daddy sledding. He was so happy to get to go with us!

"race you to the hill, Suzy!"


you are still stoked to be able to help with the shoveling,
wonder when that will stop? ha.
helping make soup once we got home...everyone does it on 
the counter, right? ha ha.

Lots of cozy time inside in the warmth with our animals this month. So much love for our furry family members.


all 5 animals in one photo...can you spot them all?
We got some photos recently in a thank you card from Lily to you for attending her sleepover birthday party. It was a makeover party and honestly, I was surprised you were on board with going, but you ended up having a great time. You have some wonderful and kind friends. I am so grateful for that. Look how cute you all are!
L to R - Elyse, Delaney, you, Lily, and Jude

Lily has been a good friend since 2nd grade
I ended up having to take the dogs to the vet for a regular check up this month. Everything was fine overall but we did get another reminder that our sweet Abby is getting older and her arthritis is getting more painful. She has also been doing this reverse sneezing thing and I wanted to make sure she was ok. The vet thought she had a sinus infection and so she gave us some medication for that and her arthritis and then all kinds of tips for how to make her more comfortable. Abby's heart is still strong (physically and in spirit) and so we are just trying to keep the pain at bay for now. On the way home it was very snowy and since Abby has always been such a huge fan of snow and Suzy is such a huge fan of almost any kind of fun with her humans, I took them both to our local dog park to romp around in the flakes while Abby still feels well enough to do so. They loved it and we had the dog park completely to ourselves. It was beautiful.
yes, Suzy is buckled into the front seat

she always gets her face completely covered in snow

this is how she does it...part ostrich, perhaps?

"run, run, run, Suzy!"
trying to lick her nose - Abby loves eating the snow

playing with a pine tree branch

watching some birds fly overhead
Abby has the perfect coat to catch the snow

copying her sister with the snowy face look
I also got a fantastically super early Mother's Day gift from you and Lao Lao. I love my new bracelet!


This month we also had our super, duper belated Garrabrant Christmas celebration in some cabins at Punderson State Park. It was so much fun. Gorgeous snow everywhere, a frozen lake, snow-tubing, skiing, and family time. What could be better?

Daddy is sleeping in...I like the shafts of sunlight

uh oh, what's Lao Lao going to do with that snowball?

Daddy's reaction when Lao Lao put that snowball down his shirt

you and Daddy on your way up the tubing hill

Lao Lao and I are right behind you

ready to go - double tubing with Lao Lao



uh oh...ornery with snowballs just like your lao lao

here we all are by the lodge

Daddy and I took a quiet hike through the woods and by the lake

standing on the frozen lake, against my better judgment
(I wouldn't let him go more than 5 feet out even though
there were people in the middle ice-fishing)

now home again...looks like the kitties missed us
And just like that, seeing as how this is Ohio, we go from snow galore to sunny skies and mild temperatures. On one of these days, I took Suzy for a long walk on our trail. Abby got a shorter one later closer to home. As you can see, Suzy had a blast. We have such sweet pups.


And...that about wraps it up for January. Family, friends, and furbabies.
Yay, 2018!

Love,
Mama